Starting a business coaching practice is an act of faith, isn't it? You're stepping out, believing in your purpose, and ready to serve others with the gifts you've been given. But then, inevitably, challenges pop up. Maybe a client doesn't sign, a strategy flops, or progress feels agonizingly slow.

And that's often when the silent killer creeps in: second-guessing.

We've all been there. You put your best foot forward, pray over a decision, and then… the doubts start bubbling up.

• "Did God really call me to this?"

• "Should I have waited for a clearer sign?"

• "Am I really capable of building this practice?"

Before you know it, you're not just questioning a single action; you're questioning your entire path, and perhaps, even the very hand that guides you.

And let me tell you, that kind of internal battle is a serious mental energy vampire.

Think about it. Every minute you spend replaying a conversation, dissecting a perceived failure, or agonizing over a decision already made, is mental energy you're not putting into:

• Seeking God's wisdom for your next steps.

• Pouring into your clients with renewed spirit.

• Developing new ways to serve.

• Actually coaching with the anointing you've received!

It's like trying to run a race with a heavy cloak of "what ifs" and "should haves" draped over you. You're burning through your spiritual and mental fuel, but you're not truly moving forward. You're just spinning your wheels, exhausting yourself in the process, and missing out on the joy of the journey.

The truth is, things won't always go perfectly, even when you're walking by faith. You'll have slow months, clients who aren't the right fit, and strategies that need a divine tweak. That's not a sign to quit; that's just part of the refinement process.

But when you let second-guessing take hold, those minor bumps become massive spiritual roadblocks. You start leaning into frustration, impatience, and the "why isn't God opening this door faster?" narrative. And that mental and spiritual loop? It hinders you way more than any external challenge ever could, pulling you away from the peace and clarity that come from resting in Him.

So, how do we fight this?

It starts with intentional spiritual preparation. Understand that doubts will arise. Delays will happen. Things will feel slow. And instead of letting those moments derail your faith, prepare your heart and mind for them.

Recognize when second-guessing tries to whisper lies into your ear. Call it out for what it is: a drain on your precious mental and spiritual resources. Then, make a conscious choice to redirect that energy through prayer and surrender. Lay your anxieties at His feet. Ask for clarity, strength, and renewed vision. Focus on the next faithful action, the next person you can serve, the next step He's calling you to take.

Your mindset isn't just about positive thinking; it's about anchored faith. It's the foundation of your entire coaching practice. Protect it fiercely from the silent killer of second-guessing, and you'll free up the spiritual energy you need to truly thrive and fulfill the purpose He has for you.