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Don’t Get Stuck in the “How”

August 21, 20251 min read

One of the biggest struggles Christian professionals face when stepping into business coaching is the “how.”

  • How do I find clients?

  • How do I get them to say yes?

  • How do I actually make this work?

The list of questions can feel endless. And if we’re honest, the weight of the “how” can keep many from ever getting started.

Why the “How” Feels So Heavy

The “how” represents uncertainty. It’s the unknown steps that lie between where you are now and where you want to be. Left unchecked, the “how” becomes overwhelming — and overwhelm quickly turns into inaction.

But here’s the truth: the “how” was never meant to be the first step.

Start With the “What” and the “Why”

Before you get lost in the mechanics, start by asking yourself two foundational questions:

  • What has God placed on your heart to do?

  • Why does this matter for your family, your future, and the people you’re called to serve?

Your “what” defines your calling. Your “why” gives you the fuel to keep going when things get tough.

When those two are clear, the “how” becomes a process — not a problem. You learn it, you apply it, and you grow step by step.

The Support You Already Have

The good news is this: you don’t have to figure out the “how” alone. That’s why our Done-For-You Business Coaching System exists. It’s built to carry the weight of the “how” so you can focus on building meaningful relationships, serving clients with excellence, and stepping boldly into the work God has called you to do.

Remember, the “how” is not your enemy. It’s simply the next step after you’ve anchored your heart in the “what” and the “why.”

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